"okay but look.
FEMALES ARE SAYING YES TOO.
Granted, it’s less than males, but they are still saying yes.
THAT MEANS THAT NOT ONLY DO WE NEED TO DO A BETTER JOB OF TEACHING MALES TO NOT RAPE, BUT WE NEED TO TEACH FEMALES TO KNOW WHAT RAPE IS.
IT IS RAPE IF YOU WERE GOING TO AND THEN CHANGE YOUR MIND.
IT IS RAPE IF YOU “LEAD HIM ON” BUT DON’T ACTUALLY WANT SEX.
IT IS RAPE IF YOU HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A LONG TIME.
So don’t only accuse males of perpetuating rape culture, because females need re-educating too. ”
"And this is why I fucking hate people. Especially males. Fuck them. "
i love me some man tears
cis white gay/bi men do not get fetishized
sure they experience homophobia, and get discriminated against for being gay sure, but what they experience is NOT fetishization
the definition of fetishization is when you are REDUCED TO A SEXUAL OBJECT ON SYSTEMIC SCALE, an object that is typically seen as UNWANTED, NONSEXUAL AND EVEN DISGUSTING by a gaze that has the power to REDUCE YOU to a sexual fetish in the eyes of society
straight women do not have the mobility in this society to do this to cis white gay men, who actually in many contexts have more power than them in our society
"New Policy: any dude who masturbates to lesbian porn will be burned at the stake"
"I grieve deeply for Anti-Feminist and MRA women.
I know why it is that they espouse the views they do; they think it will protect them.
It is a survival strategy in a world that hates women.
If you side with your oppressor and join them in oppressing other women then perhaps they will not hurt you. They will hurt other women instead.
But it will not save them. Sooner or later the goal posts will shift or they will slip up slightly and then the Anti-Feminist men will turn on them too.
Because despite what they claim it is not “Feminists” or “Bitches” or “Sluts” they hate; it is women.”
"Saying cisphobia exists is transphobic"
"A gross thought just occurred to me that any bozo i could be talking to in school or sitting next to on the bus might be some bland loser by day and some dickish rape-threatening, death-threatening anti-sj bigot by night"
"the fact women associate guilt and temptation and sin with sweets and penance with salad is no accident - the dietary industry and food industry profit from this: they want you to yo-yo - they know that people go on diets, lose weight and gain it back - they know that you will starve yourself then binge in a vicious physically harmful cycle - advertisements associate sin/temptation with sweets and penance with vegetables - they want you to stave yourself and only eat celery and fat free yogurt for a given time, then finally cave into “temptation” and gain the weight back and start over again- and notice these ads primarily target women"
"to anyone who thinks women being financially forced to do sex work is is
okay because it’s just like any other job someone has to do because they need the money: parents are allowed to force their kids to do work around the house, do you think parents should also have the right to rape their kids?”
"i almost wish all boys/men had to take a class where the entire class was women telling stories about their experiences with assault rape, harassment, sexism etc and the men were NOT ALLOWED TO TALK AT ALL and just had to listen - like maybe they’d watch documentaries or recordings of women and girls where their identities were protected or whatever and maybe there’d be some speeches by activists on larger social trends/statistics and that’s it and that’s all - no papers no “discussions” just them being quiet and listening
this would actually work well with like every oppressed/privileged group
like straight people with queers
cis with trans
white people with POC
abled people with disabled
"Sex in a capitalist society isn’t really sex. Sex involves an act of intimacy between two people. Like an intimate conversation, it could take place between two strangers or two people who know each other well: the intimate conversation could mean a lot to both people or mean very little. But either way, it’s between two human beings who have something to share with each other. But capitalist patriarchy turns sex into a commodity that men obtain to get something else… Robbed of the humanity of communion, sex becomes a mere means to an end, a tool of violence that enables men to achieve domination over an object."
"Your whole life, you’ve been taught to find joy in PIV. You’ve been taught that it’s good and pleasurable, that there’s something special and sacred about it, and that it’s something to be coveted. Your entire life, you’ve been told that PIV = good.”
"Reverse racism is not fucking racism - racism is a system of oppresison that benefits the white race over others."
"the tropes of shounen anime dehumanize women and support rape culture"
"i think we all need to stop for a moment and recognize the real victims of compulsory heterosexuality: women in happy het relationships
seriously, how the hell can you expect sympathy by bringing up how harshly compulsory heterosexuality affects you and then in the same fucking breath brag about how great your boyfriend is???
newsflash: it’s just as hard for lesbians to resist compulsory heterosexuality, we just have no choice in the matter because we don’t have men to fall back to when being a ~~mean and nasty man hater~~ gets too hard”
(while speaking of misgendered trans people) “My point in the matter of misgendering, is that if someone finds it offensive to be called a woman, then they have negative assumptions about women. And that is misogyny.”
darktower117 asked: Who has more privilege? An upper class female ivy league graduate or a working class male who has to hold down two jobs and a seventy hour work week just to make ends meet?
Justicebadass: the male, obviously
do you understand what privilege means?
"The fact that a woman is more likely to be murdered by her male partner than anyone else in the world, the fact that being in a heterosexual relationship increases a woman’s chance of being murdered exponentially, leads me to conclude that NO heterosexual relationship can be “safe, sane, consensual”."